Unfortunately miserable people aren't generally found to be an attractive prospect. You need to start cheering up a bit for your own sake, happy people are attractive.

An example here.

You're in a pub with friends, there are two other groups of people.

One of the groups is having a really good time, the drinks are flowing, everyone's laughing and all getting on well with, other people keep joining this group to add to the fun they're all having.

The other group is a bunch of long faced, quiet and miserable looking people. Staring into their drinks with a "Woe is me" expression on their faces, not saying much and looking uncomfortable.

Which group would you like to join?

Sole mate? Lonely sailors used to nail a flat fish to the ship rails in order to while a way a night of frustration....

Sole mate? Cobblers!

Anyway, you won't find your soulmate. They'll find you.

Of course this is going to be all the more difficult if you have a face like a smacked arse and you're too busy painting your room black to notice them. Don't get so despondent about finding someone. It's not an endearing quality. I know I can appear like a morose motherfucker at the best of times on here, but thats me just venting my frustration. In person I'm pretty affable. If I weren't then I know I'd get absolutely nowhere.

Good looking or not, if you spend your life under a cloud then you should expect to get pissed on. Even if you have to pretend to be happy (and lets face it, we often do, not everyone is happy 100% of the time) then you'll stand far more chance of being approached or being successful when you're with someone.

You don't have to (and God forbid please don't) be jumping around like Timmy Mallet on SunnyD and amphetamine making a complete brain of yourself. Just smile. Sometimes the simple stuff works wonders.