all a want i some one like me but i never find any one im so sad i want to find my sole mate so much

Unfortunately miserable people aren't generally found to be an attractive prospect. You need to start cheering up a bit for your own sake, happy people are attractive.

An example here.

You're in a pub with friends, there are two other groups of people.

One of the groups is having a really good time, the drinks are flowing, everyone's laughing and all getting on well with, other people keep joining this group to add to the fun they're all having.

The other group is a bunch of long faced, quiet and miserable looking people. Staring into their drinks with a "Woe is me" expression on their faces, not saying much and looking uncomfortable.

Which group would you like to join?

Not just to be contrary but the second one.
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Sole mate? Lonely sailors used to nail a flat fish to the ship rails in order to while a way a night of frustration....

am i the only one who feels sorry for this poor soul?lol

Sole mate? Cobblers!

Anyway, you won't find your soulmate. They'll find you.

Of course this is going to be all the more difficult if you have a face like a smacked arse and you're too busy painting your room black to notice them. Don't get so despondent about finding someone. It's not an endearing quality. I know I can appear like a morose motherfucker at the best of times on here, but thats me just venting my frustration. In person I'm pretty affable. If I weren't then I know I'd get absolutely nowhere.

Good looking or not, if you spend your life under a cloud then you should expect to get pissed on. Even if you have to pretend to be happy (and lets face it, we often do, not everyone is happy 100% of the time) then you'll stand far more chance of being approached or being successful when you're with someone.

You don't have to (and God forbid please don't) be jumping around like Timmy Mallet on SunnyD and amphetamine making a complete cock of yourself. Just smile. Sometimes the simple stuff works wonders.

I dont know if this will be much help but here goes. There have been a lot of times Ive felt like yourself mate-times are hard and you have nobody to call your own. But you have to dust yourself down and get back up again. We have all had it bad when relationships end or just not being with someone but think if you were a girl and you met a guy who was all depressed and told you that he was lonely and down and out-your not gonna look attractive but you will look needy and unemotionally stable. If like me you feel it inside push it down and pretend to be happy with life-youll be suprised about how it works. In my own current experience Girls like guys who are cheery, self assured and can make them smile and if you do that maybe you will be further along the road to finding your soulmate.

I 100% agree with the comments here. We have all had moments like you seem to be having at the moment, but to show that to the world in the hope of attracting a companion is futile, you will only attract people who feel sorry for you, and if anyone feels pity for you they will never seriously consider you as an equal partner, how can they?

anyhow .. good luck buddy ..

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Russ
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