hey guys there is this lad i like but the thing is so does my mate!!

is it wrong 4 me 2 like him?

HELP

love and r'ship mod

sam
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LOL! Not at all! There is no right or wrong to liking someone, it just happens.

The main question I think you’re hinting at is:

Will both of you liking the same guy cause issues with your friendship?

Now that’s more difficult!

I think it’s quite common for blokes to fancy the same girl. In the end it’s the girl who usually decides who she wants to lean towards after the contenders have had a few rounds. It can be a tough fight, but usually kept within Queensbury rules!!

Therefore that’s my answer – let him decide, best girl wins! You just have to hope your friends are mature enough to accept defeat after your victory!

or of course be magnanimous in defeat.

It isn't wrong.

But if you do feel you have a chance with the guy, talk to your friend about it.

And remember, friends come first. Unless it's true love.

We have a written rule that if we say we like someone the other guys stay clear unless the girl goes for them. Or if we agree its cool. Just sit and speak about it otherwise jelousy causes major problems.

ive spoken 2 her and she is really tryin 2 put me off him tellin me i will only get hurt and that he is a jerk... im soooo confussed bout it!! and i love her 2 bits she is a great friend... she said she dont like him anymore but she is tellin me not 2 get with him!! its sooooo confussin lol...

love and r'ship mod

sam
xx

Very difficult, depends on how much you trust your friends judgement regarding him being bad for you.

There is a risk that if you go for him you lose a friend, you have to decide what you think is best in the end.

Not a lot of help I'm afraid.

Wx

hummmmm never happened to me but i have seen it all the time
girl, it gotta be painful, however the result is

ya know well there is something ( actaully a lot of things) about women
they feel so betrayed for something like this

only best way i can think about is talk to her, atleast she will know how u feel and u two could fix it...sounds fair huh?
though its difficult to tell her this but i think its much better than she finding out herself..
like the other said there is no rule about crush on someone, but the more important thing is how you deal with it ^_^