Hello, i cmoe here to ask some advice. I have not had a girlfriend in over 6 - 7 years and i am 17 now.... I cant attract a girl no matter what. My need to try sex out is0 getting worse by the day . I am very unattrative and fat... PLEASE HELP

Love the honesty.

First thing is what you need to do is start in your appearance, look after the way you look, shower well, shave, do your hair, and if you think your fat, do a 10-15min jog in a morning, this will not only help you get in shape but will also make you feel better.

Now if you feel happy and dont want to make an effort you need to find someway you can start chatting to girls, go to a club, go skating, go the gym, do some hobby. Remember a few things, smile, project confidence and enjoy yourself. Dont be afraid of rejection.

If you want to try a routine i will write one up for you. Or basically what i do if ya like.

dude use what you have got! if your ugly and fat, you have to be nice, sweet and caring.... or lose some weight and get plastic surgry.. im just kidding. im a strong belever that theres someone for everyone. good things come to those who wait... and in due honesty if your that concerned about getting laid get $100 and go find a corner dude

My figure went to pot after quittin the ciggies for 3 months. I used to be a 10/12 but I'm now a 16. I aint no super model but I dont have any problems in getting attention from guys or gals as I am quite confident. . .

CONFIDENCE AND SELF RESPECT IS THE KEY!!!



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It might also help that you seem quite planted. Oh and cute, i will pass the sick bucket around in a tick.

Planted? hahaha What does that mean?



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The way you act and reply, some people are a bit clueless, at least you seem to put down what you know and have experienced.

Thanks guys, i am VERY self concious... i think people think im some kina creep cause it... im bout 15st and bout 5" 5. My hair is doing the whole long fringe sweep thing:P. Anymore advice is welcome... thanks

serious my friend you need to ake yourself feel better and get confidence. There is always a way to make any one confident.

Queenie will agree wont ya darling?

Sure will Dan hun.

For any of ya out there who lack in self esteem etc etc, take yourself to the bathroom (or wherever) and have a good, long look in the mirror. . .

Decide for yourself, what your best qualities are. They dont all have to be superficial, eg good looks, minted hairdo etc.

Not everyone may like who or what you are, but F*CK em! There are ppl out there who will love you for who you are and cherish your friendship too.

Stand tall with your head held high. Don't let ignorance get you down. Just remember that you are amazing and you love who and what you are. The people who don't just havent realised it yet.

Love yourself and the world will follow. . .


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Awwww @ Slick

Ur right there hun. I feel that the best way to be is to be straight to the point. I have had soooooooo many experiences in the past 22 years. Some have made me want to give up, some have made me hate myself for no good reason. I'm still here.

It's true what they say. . . What doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. I'm living proof


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