hi folks got a bit of a dilemma and would like your advice,ill try and keep it kinda short but if i do start to ramble on then i apologise in advance,been single since end of last year after my partner of 3 years cheated on me so since then ive been going out,having a good time and not letting my heart rule my head then BANG i meet a girl who i have since been seeing for the past few weeks.things are going good and everything just seems so natural when were together whether its on a night out or just siiting chilling in front of the box,despite all my best efforts ive found myself falling in a big way for her however she has a male mate who she told me about and that also wants more from her but she has turned him down on numerous occasions,anyway him and her are heading out tonight(summit planned for a while)and its doing my head in!she seems genuine enough and the last thing i wanna do is cause any hassle.ive asked her a cpl of times if i have anything to worry about and she assures me that i havent.just dont wanna go down the road of getting hurt again so any input would be appreciated guys and girls

P.S..sorry for rambling

P.P.S...think this is in wrong forum so could someone move it for me if it is thanx

Yeh should be in the advice forum.

Everyone feels strange when the person they feel for goes out. Its called TRUST and without it a relationship will die right there. I can imagine you feel really jelous, but dont show it, what you got to do is find something to do when there out. BUT also remember to send a text of, hope you have a good night, or something along those lines.

yeah i no the trust thing and thats got to be built up thru time what i also have to remind myself is that not all girls are going to cheat,think its just the fact that its a guy who wants more from her that shes going out with tonight rather than a girlfriend.was with her lastnight and told her to have a good night all be it thru gritted teeth lol,wasnt going to text her incase she thought i was checking up on her but suppose if i do it early enough it wont look like that