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10.05.2008, 10:57 quote

wolfwoman
Joined: 29 Apr 2008 Posts: 205 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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Just need to get a few things out as I'm a pit peed at the moment. Without giving all the personal details, I feel my ex is trying to get at me in subtle ways...which can actually be more hurtful than full on being an arrogant...

I will not let this get to me too much, but why do people bother with such stupid games when they have clearly stated they do not care for you anymore...

 

10.05.2008, 11:16 quote

hotchocolatex
hotchocolatex Joined: 08 May 2008 Posts: 9 Location: United Kingdom, England, Middlesex
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Firstly, everyone needs a good old rant sometimes! Lets us blow off steam.

i know how you feel. When i broke up with my ex, about 6 months ago, she really didnt take it very well and just started going out of her way to make me feel extremly bad.

I think the only advice i could possibly give from my experience is just to say that you have to think, heck if this is what they are like. Good ridance! Be glad you are not with them now and just look forward to what the future holds.

 

10.05.2008, 11:24 quote

wolfwoman
Joined: 29 Apr 2008 Posts: 205 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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hotchocolatex wrote:
Firstly, everyone needs a good old rant sometimes! Lets us blow off steam.

i know how you feel. When i broke up with my ex, about 6 months ago, she really didnt take it very well and just started going out of her way to make me feel extremly bad.

I think the only advice i could possibly give from my experience is just to say that you have to think, heck if this is what they are like. Good ridance! Be glad you are not with them now and just look forward to what the future holds.


thanks, yeh I agree, better without them that's for sure.

 

10.05.2008, 12:37 quote

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wolfwoman wrote:
Just need to get a few things out as I'm a pit peed at the moment. Without giving all the personal details, I feel my ex is trying to get at me in subtle ways...which can actually be more hurtful than full on being an arrogant...

I will not let this get to me too much, but why do people bother with such stupid games when they have clearly stated they do not care for you anymore...


He may have said he doesn't care but maybe he does. Or he could just be trying to hurt you by doing what he is doing in order to be controlling, by making you feel the way you currently do. If that is the case the best thing to do ignore it as much as possible, act like you are not affected by it in his company and get on with enjoying your new life.

You would also have to consider the fact that he may be hurt by the break up and just wants to hurt you back. In a way, it could just be a way to stay in somebody's life and be noticed. There are a lot of reasons why he might do that to you, as you know him well, you are the best judge of that really.

 
 
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