Just to say I know what your going through. I'm a painfully shy person and very self conscious. There is some great advice here I often miss out because I try to hard or just don't try at all. I'm very bad at recognising opportunities.
One thing that keeps me going is telling myself "if it's meant to happen it will."

Oh and by the way to Flowerangelaura you have nothing to worry about.

you know the best way to attract woman is not to try. if you go to a pub and you see a cute girl dont even think twice and just enjoy the time with your guys and dont even worry about it.give a glance or two through the night and odds are she will wonder why your not trying to pick her up and come over. i dont know if this works for everyone but it has worked for me.

I totally agree. I have been adamant on certain nights out that I wanna get drunk, and that I aint interested in pulling. I always ended up meeting some guy and . . . well, you know. If I wanted to go on the pull, it would be guarunteed that I would end up a drunken mess and go home alone lol

Sod's Law.



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Hi wyche85, XQueenofScotsX & Number45.

wyche85's initial posting got my attention.
Number45's posting really grabbed my attention.
Finally, XQueenofScotsX's tied my attention to a chair with strong rope!

I find wyche85's initial posting understandable.
I identify with some of Number45's experiences.
And like XQueenofScotsX, I was diagnosed with manic depression.
My condition really kicked in 9 years ago.

I'm not so bad now, but still feel very alienated, unloved, hated, rejected.
I even get an eerie feeling I'm not welcome on flirtbox.

Wouldn't surprise me if it were true.
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I wish people would realise suicide is spelt SUICIDE not SUISIDE. Sorry, I really hope those with such thoughts find help but I could not help but correct bad spelling on such an important forum.

"flowerangelaura" Loosen up a little, will you?[/quote]

I know, it was just an important forum topic spelt incorrectly does not give the impression you will get good advice from it

"flowerangelaura"] Loosen up a little, will you?[/quote]
Also, I really cannot help it, I went to a girls grammar school and my English teacher Miss Henwood always said to me, "Jayne, you are such a pretty little girl, but if you don't learn to spell correctly your career phrase will be 'would you like fries with that.' No offense to anyone who works in such a place, but since then I just get a bee in my bonnet about spelling, and yes soon I will slip and make a mistake on here and everyone can point it out to me and say you silllly biotch lol.

Been there, done that got the t-shirt.

Last year i was a mess, on anti-depressants, and all sorts of shit, really messed up, and missed half of my uni year because of it. Ended up writing off a car into a wood i was that adament that i really didn't want to be here.

Now i view that as fortunate, i went into the wood at about 50 and just let go of the steering wheel. Hit a tree and woke up in hospital. If anything it has made me realise what i have and what i could have lost.

Suicide is really not an answer to anything, and despite the comeback i might have from saying this, it needs to be said. Suicide is a wimps way out. If you really want to sort things out, not that it sounds like you need much sorting, then go to a councilling session and get some advice, just if it's someone to listen to you. Things will become clearer.