i keep meeting up wth people then em e-mailing me back saying im not worth it, or some stuipd excuse....
If nobody is even bothered to reply to me on here then what is the point
i must be the most boring ugly sack of bones there is....
if you also read my story about my ex, you will know how bad my life is
bye

i dont think your lifes that bad, you're just feeling sorry for yourself!!

pick yourself up, get out with some mates and have a laugh! girls arent the be all and end all

Cant argue with any of the above mate!

Theres somebody out there for everyone, stop putting so much pressure on yourself.

Go out and enjoy uourself and without looking so hard I reckon something might just happen for ya.... you dont know til you try!

Things dont happen over night, you didnt find Richard Branson making his millions in the blink of an eye.

Things will take time, take your life as you would, and make that little bit of an effort if a chance comes up. You just need a little bit of self confidence.

your right....
I have to stop thinking of the bad in everything, if people mess me about then it's their fault, THEY are missing out they have missed out....
i'm not backing out now, i'm going to give it my best!!
I have been thinking, and it's not worth killing myself..
I got alot ahead of me

thanks gang, your cool friends
thanks for all the advice

Saying u are going to commt harry carry is a bit extreme. . .

Dating is a lot like going shopping. For example, when you go out to buy a new pair of Levis, you don't go straight to the first shop and immediately purchase the first pair you see, do you? No (well in most cases). You would normally look in all the shops till you found what you were after. . .

Dating is kinda the same. Why jump straight in and fall for the 1st person you meet? Its supposed to be fun. Take your time and don't be disappointed if someone doesnt like you or isnt attracted to you. You also shouldnt be persistent or desperate looking. Im not saying that you are, but us women like confidence in a man, just the same as u guys like it in us.

I guess what I am trying to say is, chillax. . .



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ok, i will relax more

Very good advice Queenie

Chilling is the key to alot in life, having a relaxed, stimulated and confident mind is the key.

Keep active, have a hobby, go to the gym (you might even hook up there hehe).

Responses or lack thereof, on this or any other dating site/internet forum/chat room just aren't reason to decide that life's not worth living.

Glad you got some clear, good advice this afternoon and evening.

been there mate....

I was at the end of my tether a few years back. I was working in a dead end job, my fiance and i had split up (been togther for 3 years), i had lost touch with all my friends.....

I was alone.

Destitute.

Insecure

Lonely.


I was clinically depressed.

The way I got myself out of that was easy.

I looked at what was actually making me unhappy.

In my case - it was the lack of interaction with people - so i made the effort (something that i had stopped doing but never really noticed)

My life turned around. - I had fun. I didnt even think about dating. I went out after work, made new friends and threw myself into my work.

I started making money and enjoying my nights out.

As soon as i had made that choice I developed a new confidence in myself, my self esteem rose and i became the funny, happy go lucky bloke I used to be.

When i was out - i never used to talk/approach women - but as soon as i started to consider them as friends/new people to meet instead of sex objects/girlfriends - the conversation flowed...

I didnt get involved with anyone for 8 months as i was liking my the company of my mates, and more importantly - my own company...

Women have a fantastic ability to tune into men that are searching - imagine a group of men in a bar - they resemble a pack of meer cats...

Its the uber confident, happy, funny men that dont appear to have a care in the world that are the most successful (both persoanlly and professionally).

Personally i think you should let go of the past and move on.

enjoy yourself.
Enjoy your fiends company
Enjoy your company

Distance yourself from dating for a while, make new friends here
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Glad to hear you are better now Number45. I was in the same situation not so long ago. I wont bore you with the details, but I was diagnosed with manic depression. Im feeling a little better now compared to 3 years ago. Still not 100% happy but the ball is in my court. . .





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goo 2 hear that queenie

always remeber - you're in control - and when things get too tough...timeout
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