Ok, so I'm strapped for cash and need to pay for a new house i'm moving into with friends in august, but im finding it very hard to save up enough money. So me and my friend were thinking of becoming escorts. I was just wondering if anyone knows how we might go about this, whether it's a good idea, and just some general opinions. Thanks! xxx

Well question is... Is that what you wanna do?

On the light side... I once heard someone on the forums needed a maid and would gladly offer meals and shelter for that. And maybe more on request.

But anyhow, sorry for the light hearted thing... As I said... It really comes down to what you know to do and what you Want to do.

You could try the escort thing for a while and see how that's goin'. And if you don't like it find something else.
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Unless you have excellent social skills and can cover a wide range of conversational topics (with some extremely boring people), don’t bother. And whether you like it or not, punters are going to ask for personal services (which is where the real money is). Of course, if one is willing to provide those services, then one isn’t an escort at all, merely a prostitute.

Not that I have anything against escorts or prostitutes of course!

I agree with him above me.
Have you checked out escort service websites?
I did, a few years ago, it was "we use condoms" this, "all our girls are HIV negative" that....offering 3somes, all-night, by the hour, blah blah. Blatant prostitution, just the ladies can yap about anything under the sun.
Personally, I would say, think very hard.
I've known a few people give it a go - including men, and the work petered out when word got around they were keeping their drawers on....
On the upside, it pays extremely well.

(maybe you just need to rethink this house-move if you cant afford to do it?).

I normally use eastern european girls to be honest, but send me some pictures and I'll see what I can do OK?

Yours sincerely,
Johnny the Pimp.

It's basically money vs personal integrity.

Can you cope with the lifestyle and the stigma attached to this profession?

Do you want people to like and respect you?
Are you happy to get f*cked and then paid?

Think very carefully about this one

I agree with everybody else.

Also, you have to ask yourself:
Is it really worth selling yourself (sex or no sex) for a house?

There are a lot of...strange people out there, and a lot of chancers, who more than likely WILL try it on with you.

My advice?
Find a cheaper house.

I would like to add something to my comments above, which others may, or may not agree with.

As a struggling student nurse, one might easily be tempted to do something like ‘escort’ work to make some quick money – and let’s face it, the money could be quite good! The downside to this quick, easy money (easy, depending on how one justifies to themselves what they are doing is acceptable) is that once one has gotten used the lifestyle that goes with this kind of work, and the financial rewards it brings, it could be pretty difficult to go back to being a financially struggling student nurse. Um, once the house is sorted, what next? Escort work to pay for a new car? Or a holiday? Or just to make ends meet?

Sadly, another downside to escort work is the stigma attached to it, although this will depend largely on the type of friends one has. Telling people you are an escort might immediately equate with ‘oh, she’s a hooker’. On the other hand, if your friends are all slappers, they’ll probably think you’re well cool, innit .....

Dark Horse! LOL.

I wanted to do this a while back, but dont have the self confidence to believe that any one would want to pay to sleep with me. (Not looking for any kind of sympathy here...).

And you dont HAVE to tell people what you do for a living. You could always lie.

Stuart, I was thinking exactly that....

At the end of the day though, it is still just a job.

This might sound a little sexist what I am about to say, but it isn't meant that way...

If you can handle the whole sex for money thing (like a man would), then go for it.

But, if you are the sort of person who gets the mental hangups about sex that is a typical female sort of business, then steer clear of it.

I know these comments are gonna get me (spit)roasted for being sexist by someone, but I don't mean it like that.

Being a bloke myself (for the last 5 years), I wouldn't have any mental issues about having sex for money.

In fact my attitude would be.....
"What?? PAY ME??? For having sex??? Who said dreams don't come true?"

And I definately wouldn't end up curled up in a ball in the shower with the Crying Game blaring in the backround either.......

(Unless the chick turned out to be a bloke of course)

Dont do it ... its degrading and not worth it to have a house you cant really afford

I had a friend who worked as an 'escort girl'. One of the biggest factors in why she gave it up wasn't the lifestyle or the stigma, but the safety.

Her parents, and those of us who knew what she did, were constantly worrying about her because she was travelling all over to meet blokes she'd never met before. Anything could have happened.

When the murders in Ipswich happened, she came around and quit. But you would be putting yourself at tremendous risk, and its whether you can put yourself and your loved ones through that as well.
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Is it more dangerous than meeting flirbox men? who incidentally often want the same things for free.....