I'm very interested in this subject. There are two types of EUPD:

"* Impulsive type: the predominant characteristics are emotional instability and lack of impulse control. Outbursts of violence or threatening behaviour are common, particularly in response to criticism by others.
* Borderline type: there is marked instability of mood, relationships and self-image. They exhibit marked rapid mood shifts, intense unstable relationships and recurring impulsive self-damaging behaviour. They experience a persistent lack of identity, a sense of emptiness or boredom and they may engage in frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment."

I'm really interested in the Borderline type and trying to find out if anyone around here has it/knows more about it (maybe can recommend a reading or a website) and its treatment (if it exists).

here you go bliss23, you should find some useful info at these sites

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder

http://www.mentalhealth-world.org.uk/forums/

I don't have it , ..but have dated quite a few women who have

Funny that Mr Geezer i have dated a few guys like it too .........

I agree with Haydn ......... counselling or defo some sort of medical help is advised

well im sure glad im not in on this conversation you all would drive me nuts. didnt the poor girl ask for help.

Point meditation helps a lot. So does not smoking pot.

Hell... I think smoking pot cures it for a while.

FYI: I did go to the pub for a few games of pool after my last post... and it was so bad I couldn't pot noodles