hey,
i am probably the worst at picking up womens signals.my previous girlfriends have always come after me.but there are two people i like but i have no idea if they are giving me any signals.any information would be great.the first one i do alot of work for her grandma,she has always helps me
carry bags of shopping i take for her grandmother and she always laughs alot when she talks to me-but her last relationship was awful(he cheated on her)so could it be she just wants someone to make her feel like a real person again.
the other one works as a checkout girl and she always asks about my family and smiles a hell of a lot-but is she just being friendly????????

please help me

From my life experience so far, the best I can say is... You can't really know unless you go ahead and ask someone out.

Some people are naturally friendly... Others get friendly only when they like you a lot. As much as books and all sorts of people have tried to explain how it goes...

There's really nothing until you ask them/they ask you out.

Also... Some women and men too are natural players and just flirt with everyone. Others simply love you as a friend, but don't want more.

It's really a question of grabbin' yer balls and goin' for it.

I agree with that, except...
The bit about grabbin' yer balls while you ask them out!
Some women take a dim view of that!
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Try grabbing her bum if the balls idea doesn't work

No, don't grab her bum! ED!!!! That never works. LOL NEVER EVER. Trust me on dis one. Not even when you're both drunk and in a club. Not even then. LOL

Leave the guy alone, Ed!

And the balls thing was obviously a figure of speech, naturally. Do not grab your balls. I repeat. Do not grab your balls.

i reckon the grab her bum idea would work a charm. If she looks at ya funny afterwards, just tell her she had something on her trousers.

on a serious note, if you help her grandma and she just helps you with it all, you cant tell then. i mean lets face it, she's hardly going to be rude to you when you're helping out her family.

Grab eye contact and try and hold it, you should know the answer to your question from that, it's hard to explain how you'd know.. but you'll see what i mean.