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20.06.2008, 22:42 quote

jennababy

I came out as bi only a few months ago but am getting sexually desperate!!!!! I really want to meet up with another girl to try new things and have some fun but i can't find anyone!
Any tips???
xxx

 

20.06.2008, 23:06 quote

Bliss23
Bliss23 Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 4095 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Uhm yeah alrite... There are lots of sites for girls... Such as the flirtbox one... Don't remember the address, as I ran into it by mistake, but I'm sure someone around here knows it.

Also try this topic: http://www.flirtbox.net/lesbians/do-i-not-look-lesbian-enough-.html

And if it doesn't work then this one:

http://www.flirtbox.net/sex/requests-lesbian-and-bi-only-.html
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21.06.2008, 06:31 quote

moose666

I wouldn't have thought you'd have too many problems seeing as how being bisexual seems to be the fashion among women these days.

 

21.06.2008, 08:39 quote

darkhorse57

Unfortunately, the quirks of online dating affect those seeking same-sex relationships as they do those looking for hetero partners/friends/whatever. In other words, just because one is available (and makes themself open to offers) doesn't mean that anyone is going to take up the offer.

As Moose points out, "being bisexual seems to be the fashion among women these days" - the most common recent 'fashion' sexual trends are bisexual encounters (predominantly women) and Mixed group sex (35+).

jennababy wrote:
I came out as bi only a few months ago but am getting sexually desperate!!!!!

Also, you might have a lot more success finding someone if you moved away from the 'sexually desperate' attitude.

Having spoken to a couple of older (in their early 30's) bisexual female friends in the not too distant past, they brought up the point that many (not all, of course) girls under 23-ish who are looking for same-sex encounters are experimenting with their bisexuality, and many genuine lesbians and bisexual females who use dating sites are looking for a 'proper' relationship, not a bit of fun with so-called 'fashion bisexuals'.


/* Just for discussions sake, not that I actually believe this myself, but it occurred to me as I was typing this.....on another dating site I use one of the profile questions is 'do you smoke'; the answer options are 'often', occasionally' and 'no' - the 'occasionally' is actually a load a crap, one either smokes, or not - period. Could one not apply this same argument to bisexuality? Like I said, just to encouragement a bit of discussion......*/

 

21.06.2008, 08:55 quote

toby
toby Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 44 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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You should check out:
http://www.girlsweb.co.uk

You can login with your Flirtbox username/password there.

I would also suggest going to a lesbian bar or nightclub in London....

http://www.timeout.com/london/gay/features/1474.html

 

15.07.2008, 22:39 quote

funniment

You should forget about the computer and go out to a Lesbian/Gay club one Saturday.

 
 
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