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30.10.2006, 20:18 quote

ChiefOHara
Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2849 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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thats beaurocracy for you, it forgets to account for people.

 

30.10.2006, 20:33 quote

cessna85
cessna85 Joined: 20 Sep 2006 Posts: 178 Location: Ireland, Laois, Portlaoise
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All rubber stamps and red tape....

 

30.10.2006, 21:29 quote

eccles
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 2201 Location: United Kingdom, England, Somerset
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And don't forget the hairy tights!

BTW i think my exe now works for them!!!! so hairy legs included ROFL
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02.11.2006, 08:57 quote

kyheartacher
Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 460 Location: USA, Kentucky, Aflex
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ChiefOHara wrote:
Call social services, they can't dimiss you out of hand, They HAVE to investigate any claim you put forward, no if ands or buts about it. Any prior record or accusations that have been thrown towards you do not matter as far as they are concerned in this report.

Call social services, they will not turn you away.
He is right here social services cant disnmiss it they are under obligation under the law to check out each every case especially one where a kid is or could be at risk.If they do give you runaround there is a way around them you speak to their supervisor and let them know that you couldnt get the help you wanted and appear to need.The supervisor will deal with the rudeness of this. Surprised

 

30.11.2006, 23:18 quote

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gavisaac wrote:
i have a son his name is ali he was 1 on wednesday. i have not seen him since he was 4 months old because me and his mum split up and she wanted me to have nothing to do with him. i went to see a solicitor and things were going ok untill some un-known person (i know who it was) went to the social services and told them i was abusing children that put a stop to any legal action untill i had been cleard. by the time it had cleard up it had been to long acording to the solicitor to persue any legal claim. so now all i can do is nothing and yes it hurts like hell.


now then i have found out she is seeing some one els wich is fine by me she is free to see who ever she wants. i'm cool with it but i know this bloke he is a known drug dealer and a user. if i go to the social services and raise any concern they asume i am trying to cause trouble and dismis me. there is other things like when my familly go to the carboot sale she is there with loads of people and will stand and stear at them to haras them she does it to me to even last night i went out because it was my birthday and they steard me out to. but the most concerning thing for me is that there is drugs involved and this is going on around my son what do i do help me please


Any news since yesterday? No matter how much you may want to beat your ex or her skank bf, don't do it! All it will achieve is getting arrested. Are you sure it's too late to pursue a claim?

My thoughts are with you

Karen

 

04.12.2006, 13:38 quote

kyheartacher
Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 460 Location: USA, Kentucky, Aflex
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someone is not being straight up with you.And human resources are so good at shoving things under the table.i USED TO WORK DEPT HUMAN RESOURCES IN CHILD SUPPORT DIVISION.iM NOW GOING FOR MY MAJOR IN FAMILY LAW.yOU ARE BEING DENIED YOUR RIGHTS AS A FATHER.aND EVEN YOUR LAWYER ISNT TELLING YOU THIS.You need to dismiss him or her right away it doesnt matter how long its been.The courts will look at how hard you fought for him.A nd you need your new attorney speak to the judge thats handling this case.In no way shape or form will the courts endanger a child .I f it is presented to the judge he will get it done so to speak.First you sit down and you write all important facts that need to be checked out Asap.If I THOUGHT IT HELP CALL THE MAIN OFFICE IM SAYING THIS OFF THE RECORD. Wink TELL THEM THAT YOU FEEL HE IS IN IMMEDIATE DANGER.tHAT SAID THEY HAVE TO TAKE ALL EMERGENCY CALLS.

 
 
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