Other factors od have to be taken into account! On this site and some others AGE is the biggest factor, not being yourself or being a nice person! Quite simply AGE, to many people seem to have exceptionally unrealistic demands as to what they are seeking! Strict adherance to this limits both them and others to a very narrow field, I agree that you have to adapt to a certain extent but to me the analysis should come after a failed date! That's if you ever get near one in the first place!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Lets be realistic for a moment. A narrow list of 'techniques' will only work for a narrow profile of women. Moreover, the techniques that work for one guy may not attract the kind of women that are suitable for another guy. eg getting a one night stand requires a different approach to finding marriage material.

i always seam to fall into this catogary aswell,iv never had much luck with girls in the past

but then i met my now ex about 18 months ago,we were friends before throguh friends,and got chatting,we went out....and it just went from one thing to another and we were so close i vertualy lived with her and was travaling the 30+miles miles to work 3 times a week then driving back up there after,even when on nights i did this,we had out difrences she is very inteligent where as i was never realy interested in education,i curenty work for a well known manufactoring company,anyway this made me grow up fast you could say iv never realy been a big drinker or clubber anyway,neither was my girlfirend,and then anyway an even longer story short shes now gone off to university and basicly now just wants to go out as often as possible and problalby sleep about aswell,so after all this time of her saying how in love she was with me and wanted us to be "more" she has now decided its best we have a "break" and isnt interested anymore about anything we used to do etc and tbh its got me pritty down over the last month since she went,i see her constant picture and status updates on facebook etc and feel like she is almost making a point in letting me know how much she doesent care anymore,id always put her first in everything and would go out of my way to make sure she was happy and also spent a pritty penny over the time aswell


sorry if you cant make any sense of that post im not the best with spelling and grammer

Well mate, I am sorry that that has happened to you, from what you wrote you sound like you did try and make her happy. And it sounds like you succeeded until she went off the uni. Who knows, maybe she will live it up for a bit then wonder what happened to the old her and realise what she lost in you. But don't hold out for that to happen, because its quite likely that it wont. Its best that you start to find new people in your life. Do new things and see new people yourself, in time you will find you think about her less. If you constantly see her on facebook having a great time without you it might not help matters.