As far as I know, I'm about as developed as I'm going to get. Or dear god I hope so cause if my boobs get any bigger I'm screwed. Though the doc was off a couple of inches when they guessed my height.

And as to the piercings, they can't really do anything about it. They'll tell me to close the piecings, which I'm not doing it took me like, 6 months to get them out that big, cause they're an infection hazard. And doctors seem to be very, anti-anything cool in a sense. The closest I've ever come to a cool healthcare work is me (ahaha), a couple of my bosses and the nurse in sarnia who is a piercer and a RN.

Ok next topic, no because 1) I don't masturbate for the same reasons I don't want to have love; it hurts. Though the masturbation one is slightly different. And I've never had an orgasm, so if I did masturbate I would have no idea where I was heading with it. And please don't go into the 'well you should try it, cause then you'll know what you like and don't like' and I do know what I like when it comes a man and his fingers or tongue. I just happen to not like the whole love part, or the rush he puts in the atmosphere that he needs to get off. And I probably can't orgasm even if I did happen to find some guy that would be (god forbid) willing to take the time and help me try, rather than push for love.

You should mildly like you have a Ph.D in something. Not that that's meant to be an offense.

Man, I want connections! I stayed there for a semester, and l-o-v-e-d it. It's like the perfection everyone's looking for. I miss it. And my bestest friend lives there, so it makes sense. If you can get in on other than a three month exemption, it really is am amazing country. So tiny yet such much too see. And the cheese and chocolate are to die for. Really.

Lol, I wouldn't worry too much about your breasts. They probably should have stopped at about 16 or so...

Okay, So please bear with me, I'm just doing some random googlings (I make up words too ) to see what I can find out for you...

Try this one: http://familydoctor.org/669.xml
Some general info here, but nothing very useful... hmmm

Interesting: http://www.sexwithoutpain.com/
Didn't dive into it too much, but it sounds promising.

The bottom line here Dayle, is that love should NOT be painful in any way for you, unless you're inserting something WAY too big, but that's not the problem. And the lack of Orgasm is very concerning as well...think I had my first when I was 12 or something. Seeing as you want to go into the healthcare field, perhaps you should see a professional.

Umm...I take it you meant: You sound mildly... And no, I don't have a PH.D in anything, and I take that as a compliment really. I'm a geek at heart and I absorb all the random information that I can. Also when I come across something that sparks my interest I usually do everything that I can to learn everything about it I can. Take your case for instance...I know more now about Dyspareunia than ever before. Mostly what I have is experience, empathy, a willingness to help, curiosity and friendliness on my side.

Let me know when you're back overseas, I'll get you to send me a box of REAL chocolate

They haven't stopped yet. When I lose weight, they get bigger lol. I'm not joking. It's mildly scary sometimes.

As for lack of orgasim, male vs female orgasim it's quite obviously easier for guys. You guys get off in your sleep for crying out loud. As for going to see a doctor, I'd love to, but honestly what are they going to say, 'You're still growing, it's nothing to be worried about.' I told my doctor that my back was bothering me, he notes I have mild curve in my spine. He's like, I'll check back in a few years. Meanwhile, I groan in pain at work. Doctors don't listen to you, especially if you're a kid. Which is what I'm considered. And I'll get, we'll you shouldn't be having love anyways. In which case, they can kiss my arse, you try resisting a horny 16 year-old male. Or they'll blame me being on the pill, cause my body is retarded and is estrogen sensitive or something.

I'm probably just one of those girls you hear about that can't have an orgasim. And love sucks anyways, so I don't know why I'm concerned. I should be more concerned with I need to become better at faking it for the rest of my life.

And yes I did. I can't type properly, and I sometimes get ahead of myself.

Aha, will do.

And I'm still stuck in this stupid situation.

Hey Dayle, sorry for not getting back on here sooner. Allrighty let's look at things here:

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True to some extent...seems that too much value is placed on that mythical age of 18...somehow overnight you become qualified to speak for yourself. If one doc gives you that, threaten to sue for age discrimination That should get his attention if nothing else.

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Don't knock that statement at all. I know LOTS of women that are on the pill to regulate hormone levels - and it has NOTHING to do with birth control. Even in high school, I knew girls at age 15 that were on them to calm down the cramps. And this was doctor recomended. The estrogen sensitivity could be a cause for some of your other .... "oddities"... Hopefully that will calm down in a few years. Have you ever had your hormone levels checked? Could be worth looking into.

Situation solved. I don't want to have love every again, I don't want to date anyone ever again, I'll be happy if a guy never hits on me again.

I got ditched by the potential boyfriend, for the same reason my ex dumped me and and my ex has guilted me into sleeping with him. I'm stuck surrounded by the same stupid answers, the same events, and hearing the same words come out of every guys' mouth.

I'm officially considering taking a vow of celibacy and not-dating for the rest of my life. 'Cause lezbianism just doesn't cut it for me, girls are worst than guys.

And I don't have coverage at my job, and OHIP doesn't cover chiropractors. So +100 a session is money I, nor my parents, don't have. Ditto for gynocolgists. And if it hurts to get a penis in my nether regions, I don't want to go through the spectrum again, that thing hurts more than some idiot teenager guy trying to get me off.

Don't count yourself out of the love ring yet. You never know...and never is a LONG LONG time. So far your experiences have only been with those idiot teenagers. Just lay off the whole thing for a while. Seems that your body is still settling down.

Chiropractors going for $100???? Where are you going? Last time I went in Ontario, it was like $30... not much more than when OHIP was dishing out some for it. And the gyno visit should be 100% free, unless you're seing a private one.

All in all Dayle, a healthy love life is a part of any good relationship. If you want to swear off relationships for a while, go right ahead...just don't close yourself down to the idea completely. Never know what will happen in a few years.

And don't ever let a guy guilt you into bed....if he does, hit him in the sack. He deserves it. Either that or laugh yourself silly when he pulls out his penis. That should put him in his place. Always remember you are in control in the bedroom

Well I'm off to bed. Have a good night Dayle! Talk to ya later.

I'll stick with forever. I sick of here the same lines, the same promises, the same things being said and for what? Hearing the same reason I'm being dumped, for same reasons I'm not good enough for them, to see them walk away from me and find someone else. I'd rather just stay from it all for the rest of my life.

I don't have 30$ even if it was that low (that'd be nice). I have phone bills to pay, I owe people money, I have to pay car insurance soon.

Sorry, but I think I'll stick with I hate guys and love all together.

And I've never been in control of the bedroom. Guys don't seem to care about girls, they say they do, but when it actually comes down to it, they don't.

If you get back with your ex do you think it would be the same as it was the first time, or would you always have doubt that he will dump you again when he gets too much work again? Do you want to go around in a continuous circle?

I know for me if you ever get back with a guy once you have split up with them for what ever reason it leaves so much doubt in my head, this may not be the same for you?

People say that u have to love someone if u want to forget your ex..I dont agree with that..U should forget your ex firstly if ur thinking to fall in love..

U shouldnt compare these 2 guys cos everybody is different from others..If u still love your ex,then it'll be unfair to the new guy..I think u should think carefully with all positive and negative situations,u can even write them to a paper..It'll help u make u your mind

you are so blessed to have two guys, while me i dont even have one, heheheh.

Just follow your heart. It will lead you the right path.

my x fort all i wanted was love but i dont think she believed that i didnt. i would do anything for her and still would i had never cared about any like her. but reading what you wrote i feel like i could have done more to make her feel i didnt want her for that. we would have love about 1 a month which i think is fair enough if thats what she wants.

what im getting at is that maybe you think your ex is a bad guy and when hes trying to make things right you dont trust him so either you try things with your ex and see if he treates you right and isnt after one thing or you try what i think is prob the best rout see the new guy and hope things work out because at the start of a relationship nothing is complicated and everything is new

Well, how do I put this. My ex did come around wanting me back. And I was going to go back, because things happened with the new guy, and that's a no go unless I'm really stupid and all he wants is love right now.

Unfortunately, I must have driven my ex off (wow, as if I don't do that enough with guys) cause he found a new girlfriend. That was a kick in the teeth with everything else that's been going on in my life.

So I've officially given up. I'm now celibate and dateless for the next year and a half, at least. Well, probably.