Alright, forgive me if you don't understand me, I think I'm one of the few people on here who's not from the UK, Scotland, Ireland or surrounding countries. But I honestly needs some help.

I dated my ex for a couple of months, but he was one of my fest friends before. So when he dumped me out of the blue, I was completely heartbroken, not to mention that I fell hopelessly in love with him. Then, a few weeks after we broke up, I met another guy,

Well, I'm currently stuck with the situation like this; my ex is now back in my life, wants me back (insisting that everything I think about him using me, not caring, etc. etc. is not true). I thought I was over him, but when we started talking everything I felt for him came back. the only difference is now, I really, really, really don't like or want sex. Which, well, we considering we had lots of sex before, he doesn't get.

Though in the mean time, I met this other guy. He is amazing and I really like him. I know he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon, and I don't know what to do. He is the greatest guy, treats me like I finally found a good guy. Downside, he lives about an hour away from me, and I still live with my parents, so it's difficult to see him.

Any advice at all? I have an ex who I love, but mistreats me and makes me feel bad, and a possible new boyfriend, who is very nearly perfect for me. I've considered trying to be with both of them, but I can't hurt my friend, he's been cheated on with every other girl he's dated. And my ex wants me back, as in his girlfriend.

Anybody?

Indeed, the new guy seems best. The old will prob not change once you're back with him in my opinion

yer leave the ex alone and go with the new guy, just cos you would see him less it dont mean nothing, it might even be good for the relationship to see him less often than you are used to.

I know what you're all saying... but by far easier said than done. And the sad part is my ex is friend's with one of my friends (none of my others because well, two very different stories that involved lezbian sex and an ex.... long story) and she told me he talks about me all the time.

And to the person above me, every guy I've dated I've seen him max once a week. They have all went to different schools, at least a half hour away. More commonly 45 minutes to and hour.

And like... what do I do when my ex is being, well himself. I fell in love with him for a reason...

Somebody talk over my life and live it for the next, oh I don't know, 12 year, and get me through university, and res., and then I'll take back over. Ok? deal.

lmao @ moneypenny

means end of ....

may I point out that kinda contradicts my dilema?

sounds to me like you already know what you wanna do then